Sunday 12 August 2012

Sex Tips from Rock Stars

In a Men's Health article I checked out on the subject, they mentioned a few points which are always good reminders of how to present yourself in a more appealing way.  I don't care about sex tips, but personal development is always good:
  • When in groups, try moving around the room and interacting with as many people as possible. When you speak, vary the pace of your voice from upbeat to slow, and deliver all your words with emphasis. Be controversial, counter-intuitive, emotional and fluent.
  • Recent research found that confident people keep an open posture with their hands apart and away from their face.
  • Rock stars are unattainable. Create that exclusivity by having somewhere else to be and making your time with her feel limited.
  • Guys hunt for women in packs. Women don’t often find that appealing. It’s usually the guy who shows he’s willing to break away who makes the most progress.” Rock legend dictates as much. The successful womaniser breaks away from the entourage, making himself more ‘vulnerable’ by introducing himself to strangers. “You become a much safer proposition,”
  • These are men who stand out: the guy who asks questions during lectures, scores multiple strikes at the bowling alley or takes risks in the boardroom. Find the thing that marks you out – and push it.
  • In a social context, movement is very important. Using expansive arm gestures is a way of getting noticed. Pour cocktails at a party, hail taxis and throw your hands up at gigs.
  • Adopt characteristics that women find attractive: attentiveness, empathy and listening skills [Side note: this is something I've worked on a lot and feel very good at]
  • Don’t plan a date for after a heavy workout. Cambridge University found high testosterone reduces your capacity for empathy.
  • Try to look young and youthful- groom yourself (including downstairs)
  • Up your intake of vitamin C. It can prevent the ageing effects of long-term sun exposure, says the University of Maryland. 
Although these pointers might just be based on small scale university studies, they make sense and worth keeping stuff like this in mind.

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